Maybe for some of you this is the first time you hear about this but the twin flame journey is not a romantic love story. It may be for some twin counterparts but first and foremost the twin flame journey is a mission. A mission to liberate humanity.
The Story
The story goes that there are 144.000 twin flames needed on this planet to help shift humanity to higher timelines. Where this story comes from or whether this is true or not we don’t know (I may update this in the future when I know more). But it is said that only 7 real twin flame couples (divide the number 144.000 and you get to 7) who complete their light body will shift the planetary templates which will get humanity out of this prison planet.
We call this a prison planet because for centuries we as spirits haven’t been able to leave this time matrix but had to reincarnate back onto this planet every time. When we go to the light when we pass away, we get back into the reincarnation loop. And the idea of going to the light is set up by A.I. which means everybody got stuck here over and over again. And some say that some of us volunteered coming here knowing about the risk we would be taking. The good news is that the organic grid is coming online because of all the work everybody has been doing twin flame and non-twin flame.
At this moment in time nobody is really able to teach about the twin flame journey to its fullest, since it’s so complex. There are interdimensional things going on that the human mind can barely grasp. There’s a lot of information that we don’t know and understand about this yet collectively. As you progress on this journey you will come to understand how complex this journey really is (due to fragmented consciousness).
And due to the intensity of the twin flame dynamic and the effects it has on the psyche, weird things can happen between the counterparts. There are twins who go into a bit of a shock or denial about the connection and some get hijacked or assimilated. There are stories about twin counterparts who try to kill themselves out of love for the other, or by not being able to process what comes up through the activation. There is a story of a male counterpart stalking his twin by driving by her house. He was obviously the chaser in this case and believe it or not they did end up together in union.
As you can see this twin flame journey is not easy for many. And no twin flame journey is the same, some get into union and some don’t. In order for twins to actually come into union and have a relationship that is in divine harmony, both have to go through the ascension process and clear (all) karma.
The primary intention is to…
What we do know now, and this is the truth about the twin flame journey, is that the primary function for each twin flame at this time is to restore polarity for humanity. Which is the balance between the inner feminine and masculine energies within, we also call this inner marriage, inner union or hieros gamos. Twin flames are really polarity integrators and this is the TRUE mission.
The feminine and masculine energies work as a whole. That means when the masculine energy is out of balance the feminine energy is too and vice versa. When an individual does balance the feminine and masculine energies within they can manifest pretty much anything. And when the inner masculine and feminine are balanced you become the higher self. Your higher self holds a higher consciousness and when you are able to stream that consciousness in your life you become a very powerful creator being. This is ultimate freedom within.
It’s not only important for twin flames to balance the inner polarity, it’s also important for each individual that does not identify as a twin flame to balance out their own polarity. But twin flames are considered the frontrunners in this polarity integration which serves the entire collective.
Creating inner union can be done with or without the twin counterpart. But we do benefit from the reflection of a physical male or female in order to learn where we are imbalanced and it creates the most growth. This could be from a different person than your actual twin flame. Everyone has free will which means that even though two people come in as twin flames they don’t necessarily have to come into union in this lifetime. And it also does not mean that you failed mission work.
Again, twin flames are scheduled in this lifetime to integrate polarity with the intention to shift the planet to higher timelines and breaking free from the inorganic grid. The outer twin is helping you to overcome all struggles and to find everything within yourself. Your twin is an opportunity to love yourself even deeper, a love that you never knew existed. The twin is your catalyst for growth, self-mastery and to become OK on your own. Despite what others might say there is no guarantee to be with your twin in this lifetime unless they decide to co-create with you.
We have to set our mental stories and our personal desires aside in this journey. We are here for the mission first and foremost. That doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy our lives and not go after what we want. But we do have to look at the bigger picture and remind ourselves why we are here…
How to balance the Feminine and Masculine energies within?
Twin flames have to find a way to balance the polarity within themselves to complete the mission. Most importantly they have to understand their own feminine and masculine energetics and how they operate. Some of the themes you want to work on, which applies to everyone not only twin flames, in order to create inner union are these:
- Understanding the energetic expressions of the feminine and masculine energies. (For a deeper understanding you may want to start out with reading my other blog ‘Understanding Feminine and Masculine energies within’).
- Heal your father wounds to heal your relationship with the inner masculine.
- Heal you mother wounds to heal your relationship with the inner feminine.
(The wounds you have experienced around your own mother and father or caregiver, are being reflected upon the twin or within other close relationships. Figure out the pain you are feeling around your mom and dad and you can heal these wounds in time).
- Heal your inner child. Together with your inner child, your inner feminine and inner masculine you can create union, as this is your inner family.
- Work on getting in touch with your sexual energy which is also your life force energy.
- Learn to be present more often. This is also called being in the zero-point field and it also serves to collapse timelines where you may have been stuck. (You can read my blog about living in the present moment here).
- Visualization: Visualize the inner feminine (preferable on the left, but do however it comes to you) and inner masculine (on the right) at the center of your heart and visualize them holding hands. Then start to feel into your feminine and your masculine energy and run this energy from left to right until you feel they are balanced. You may want to commit to this for 2 weeks for about 10 minutes and pick the same timeframe every day. This visualization will help support the inner balance.
- Shadow Work and Somatic Work. In order to do all the above you also need to know how to tune into your body and your felt sense to get to the root of your pain and heal the fragmented consciousness. You may want to get support from a somatic practitioner for this as well.
This basically sums up everyone’s healing journey and it’s a lot, but these are the key components to true healing. Healing is not a straight line and all the above points mentioned will be an ongoing practice and it will not go in this exact same order. Work with whatever comes up and where you feel the strongest pull towards at this time and go from there.
More about inner balance
It’s also beneficial for every man to acknowledge their inner feminine and for every woman it’s important to acknowledge their inner masculine. You don’t have to be afraid to become too feminine or too masculine, because all you will do by leaning into your polarity is balancing them into union. You won’t become a woman when you are a man by doing so and you won’t become a man when you are a woman by doing so. You can’t go wrong with leaning into the supportive inner masculine and/or the soft and loving inner feminine!
Nobody is in harmony with their inner feminine and inner masculine all the time. And you cannot determine when you are fully balanced, because one day you may be feeling more balanced and the other day you may feel less balanced. We are human and life has many challenges, good or bad. We have to make new choices according to new circumstances and these things can throw us out of balance. But when there is no more push and pull between the inner feminine and inner masculine within then we can say the individual is ‘balanced’.
The chaser and runner dynamic (push and pull) is only happening because of fragmented consciousness and so an imbalance in the feminine and masculine energies within. For example, it’s not normal for a female to chase, this is a sign of an imbalance within polarity. A woman actually chooses the man which is how the polarity organically functions. The man comes to the woman but the woman chooses to receive the man or not (with the man having free will to choose as well). We also see this in how the organic masculine energy works, which is the action taking force and the feminine is the receiving force.
It’s also not natural for a man to run, again this is a sign of imbalance in polarity. And the chaser/runner dynamic can happen to the opposite genders or same sex counterparts in this example as well.
If one twin is in balance the other twin has to come in balance and vice versa. What happens to one counterpart affects the other. When one twin realizes something, the other twin will too sooner or later. This is how the connection works. Consciously or subconsciously they are working together to balance each other out.
Sometimes it may seem like all the inner work doesn’t get paid off but one of the things that you gain along this journey is spiritual wealth, a deep connection and understanding of self and freedom within that nobody can take away from you. This is worth more than many realize. This may be what we truly seek, to feel whole within and that is what the outer twin is reflecting back. It’s a very advanced state of being to attain and that many have not realized yet.
Imagine a world where all people attained a balanced inner feminine and inner masculine. A world where all people live in harmony. A world where there are many sacred unions, twin flames and non-twin flames, that willingly serve as powerhouses for the wellbeing of this planet and everybody in it.
Keep learning and keep doing the work and in time we will complete the mission that we came here for.
With Love, Naomi
P.s. you may also like to read ‘The Ultimate Shadow Work Partner…The Twin Flame Journey Part 1. And here are the other links one more time to ‘Understanding the Feminine and Masculine Energies’ and ‘How To Start Living In The Prestent Moment?’
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