This is not a blog against having children, nor is it wrong to have children. And this is not a blog to convince someone to not have children, this is intended to be informative and is coming from a neutral place. There are a lot of amazing things to say about having children, about the joy, love and light that children bring. And we all have been a child once. But there are some important things to consider before you decide to have children, especially if you are on the spiritual path. This is a sensitive topic so please stay openminded as you continue on reading
- Having children creates karma & anchors you to the planet
First, it’s important to understand what karma entails.
‘Karma means action, work or deed; it also refers to the spiritual principle of the Law of Cause and Effect where intent and actions of an individual (cause) an influence upon the future of that individual (effect). Positive intent and positive deeds help to contribute to positive karma that helps to co-create future happiness, while negative intent and negative deeds contribute to the consequences of negative karma and future suffering. In the consideration that all things in creation are Consciousness, there are both potentially positive or negative effects of the consciousness energy that intermingles with our Lightbody, and the quality of energy is based upon our own intent for actions and the consequences of those actions.’ – Lisa Renee.
And it is so that having children create karma (nobody is an exception to this). So how does having children create karma? Think about the following. When you have a child, you co-created that being with someone else (and source) and this living being continues their own life here on earth. And they can create good and bad things which you essentially co-created. And as you know, your children may also have children, and their children will have children and so on. We have been creating generations for a very long time. So even when you are gone, your creations live on and this creates karma.
You can kind of see it as a spiritual karma network that is being created as you have children. And through this network our children anchor us to the planet. By having children, you bond yourself and your child to this planet, which is a fallen density (density is another term to describe this time-space matrix we live in). And it may also put you and your child into heavier timelines due to the fact that this is a fallen density where almost everything is currently operating from an inverted place (which you will come to know as you awaken more).
- Is having children a trap from a spiritual perspective?
This is an unpopular and triggering thought for most because we need to zoom out of our individual lives just enough to comprehend this knowing. And we need the right information to understand this concept.
Yes, having a child in the inverted grid is a spiritual trap. It’s a trap when the cells are coded to this inverted grid, because it keeps a spirit stuck here instead of going through ascension. You can consider the inverted grid as the world that operates upside down, where it appears one way but may actually be the opposite of how it appears. If a child is locked into the inverted grid all depends on what is going on in the biology of the parents when they have a child. If they have synthetic biology (which most of us have right now due to pollution, injections etc.) they and their children are most likely being anchored to the old inverted grid and stay stuck in that reality (which is the descending timelines and at some point, will destroy itself. And this is what we preferably don’t want to experience!).
The people with synthetic biology that have children will create hybrids (genetically altered human beings) that aren’t going to make it through the ascension process. This is because these hybrids are not coded for ascension, and the planet is ascending. This means you can’t stay on a planet that is ascending, and go through ascension, if you don’t match those codes.
Part of why we are here is becoming multidimensional and not get trapped into the reincarnation loop and liberate ourselves from this planet by going through the ascension process. For a deeper understanding you can read my blog ‘Why are we here? The Ultimate Question Answered!’
Also understand that we are all already hybrids, our DNA has been tempered with many years ago (we are supposed to have 6 fingers and toes on each hand and foot!). But we are all coded differently and we weren’t exposed before to the things that create synthetic biology like we are now. The good news is that the light codes that are coming in will burn of a lot of the synthetic stuff that is in the body for those who are on the ascension timeline. So, the body will purge the synthetic biology out because we are bringing in more light and don’t match those higher codes. But it is also important to support the physical body by doing the necessary detox protocols. For more about that you can read: ‘101 Health Protocol for Beginners and Advanced’
- Having children will look different in the future
When we fast forward this ascension process, which is about bringing in more light and becoming multidimensional, we will at some point (far away in the future) only be light. There won’t be the need to birth a human being anymore. We already are eternal beings from a higher perspective. But at the same time the lower levels of reality still exist so those people will have children. But for those on the ascending timelines won’t have children in the way that we do now, we have no need to do that. How will this look like? We don’t know yet and we will have to see what the future holds in due time.
- Do you want to continue in a system that’s trying to enslave human bodies?
This is another triggering thought so please stay open to new perspectives.
When we are on the spiritual awakening path we become more and more conscious and so having a child in the old grid, while having synthetic biology, will have to be a highly conscious decision. Because you may be supporting a system that’s trapping another human being in this reality…Again for more information you can read the blog: ‘Why are we here?’
We need to consider the following: ‘do you want to continue in a system that’s trying to enslave human bodies?’ Because the reality is… there is a dark agenda for humans on this planet, and that is complete control. That is why they try to deactivate our DNA so that we can’t ascent and be a free spirit again essentially. And many of us have come here to help the earth-seeds (those are people who have never gone through ascension before in other life times) to go through ascension and not get trapped. Lower vibrational beings have been incarnating on this planet to maintain a lower state of consciousness and now we are here bringing in higher states of consciousness to rehabilitate and restore the planet.
Truly humans came here to help Gaia (mother-earth). And having children used to be regulated between the planet and the spirit and this regulation has been interfered with. It is said that women were only supposed to have children once every 3 years.
- Raising children is a BIG responsibility
Also consider that raising children will be a big responsibility and it takes two conscious people (and help from several other people) who are in union to raise a truly healthy child. Especially now it’s very challenging to raise a child looking at the financial picture, the pollution in the environment and in our food, the media, EMF frequencies and so on. It takes a lot more to raise an emotionally, mentally and physically healthy child than we realize. And really you can’t prevent your child from experiencing trauma on this planet right now. Even if you are doing everything ‘right’. There will be painful things a child will go through that’s not in our control. It’s important for parents to help a child develop the capacity and skills to deal with life’s challenges.
And to not dismiss this, there is something incredibly beautiful about a man and a woman in sacred union together and creating another being from their love for each other. And there is something incredibly beautiful about mother- and fatherhood too. Having a child will absolutely bring many people joy but it takes great responsibility to take care of a child. It will take up a big part of your life. And realize that when a child is born you can’t undo what you created. You will be a mom or a dad for the rest of your life (in most circumstances). So, be highly aware about the responsibility it takes to raise a child (healthily), before deciding to have children.
- Be clear about ‘why’ you want to have children
Many people have children but don’t know the real reason ‘why’ they want children. And we put an immense amount of societal pressure to have children, which makes the ego come up with all kinds of reasons why we should have children. Many adopt the program that we as people produce offspring. That’s what we do. Some people don’t even think that there’s a choice to not have children because it may already trigger the need for societal approval that can be deeply embedded in our subconscious.
If you are boldly honest with yourself, do YOU and every part of YOUR being really want to raise children? If you are sure, then ask yourself: ‘why do I want to have children?’ and if not then ask yourself: ‘why don’t I want to have children?’ Or answer both questions and get super clear about your decision to have or not have children.
Also, be aware that you may want children for subconscious self-serving reasons. You may have a subconscious need to have children because it boosts your self-esteem, or to make yourself feel complete etc. Know that having a child is not going to fill the inner void (it may do that temporarily). This is another reason to get clear on your ‘why’.
Be conscious about the fact that those cute little children become adults. Real adults! And they will have their gifts and their challenges. And you will be part of those ups and downs too while managing your own life. The question is: ‘are you up for that?’ Do you have the capacity to do that? Answering these questions will bring about clarity on your decision.
There is no right or wrong
Everybody has free will and their own lessons to learn in order to expand in life. For some this may involve raising children and for some it may not. There never is a right or wrong to the things that we do ultimately. Don’t make this information discourage you if you have always felt you wanted to raise children. If it’s your truest desire to have kids then there is a reason for it and it may as well be part of what you are destined to do here.
But also, don’t dismiss the ‘I don’t know if I want to have kids’ and the doubt you may have had your entire life. If you don’t feel the desire to have kids, then trust that instinct. Having children may not be your highest timeline. And for someone else having children may actually be for their highest timeline. We all have different roles to play here that serve our individual lives and the collective at large.
We have to trust that there is a divine design in everything no matter what we choose, but let it be a conscious choice.
Until next time.
With Love, Naomi
P.s. you may also like to read my other blog ‘Why Are We Here? The Ultimate Question Answered!’ and ‘The Truth about New Earth! It’s not what you think…’
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