A healing message from the feminine collective to ALL men:
I see you.
I see your pain.
I see the pressure society has put on you.
The pressure to provide.
The pressure to always look strong and being shamed for weakness.
The pain of suppressing how you truly feel.
The pain of learning that men shouldn’t cry because that is not what real men do.
The pain of being disconnected to yourself, your spiritual nature, to women and the world at large…
Where is that big motherly love that you needed in the past? Telling you that everything is going to be okay because mommy is here? Are you still searching for her outside of yourself? Can you find your inner feminine within to care for you and love you now? What more pain are you in men? What don’t women know about the pain that men carry? Tell us…express it to your woman…
The wound(s) men carry
Everyone carries wounds with us that is not only from our individual life experiences but we also carry collective wounds. There are collective wounds that men have experienced and wounds that women have experienced. One of those wounds is the polarity imbalance between the masculine and the feminine in society. But for this blog we will focus on the healing of men.
One of the wounds that have been carried on for generations within men is not feeling and showing emotions, because that is not what a ‘real’ man does. And because men have learnt to not feel and suppress their emotions (more than woman have) it has created a big wound in the masculine collective. Men are human beings and a human being has emotions and everyone is supposed to feel them and express them. For men to heal, they would benefit from getting back in touch with their feelings and their heart. And the entire masculine collective would benefit from a collective dark night of the soul for the purpose of awakening true masculinity in this world.
Quote: The single biggest barrier to enlightenment for men is: disconnection.
‘Disconnection is the state of being detached from something. Disconnection plays out in all kinds of different ways with men. Men can be detached from their emotions, from each other, from their partners, from their own essence, from their children, from their hearts, from their true desires, from the impact they have on others and the list goes on and on.’
– Teal Swan
We also see more men being afraid of their sexual feelings towards women because of how much sexual abuse with women has happened on this planet. And also because of an unhealthy way of looking at sexuality. And this is making it harder for men to approach a woman and to embody true masculinity. This creates an imbalance in their own masculinity and healthy sexuality is important for the healing of men (and woman).
Man would benefit from discovering what makes them truly feel masculine. What feels masculine for one man doesn’t have to feel masculine for another man. And the general power and domination that is seen in the world is not true masculinity. Below you can find a few masculine traits you want to remember and try to embody to let the true masculine energy arise.
Divine masculine energy represents:
Action, direction, movement, responsibility, strength, focus, fatherhood, generosity, encouragement, material abundance, clarity, intellect, imagination, transformation, growth and the consciousness mind.
Men also need to tune into their feminine side because both men and woman have masculine and feminine energies running through them. And men, please don’t be afraid to become a softy or appear weak because you won’t! Below you can find the feminine energy traits.
Divine feminine energy represents:
Receiving, Restoration, life, renewal, creation, birth, healing, receptivity, openness, motherhood, nurturing, love, understanding, compassion, insight, intuition, wisdom, forgiveness, connection, harmony, sensuality and the subconscious mind.
As you can see feminine energy is connection, love, understanding etc. and that’s what men need to also tune into. It’s the antidote to your pain around feeling disconnected and the antidote to our collective pain. When men get in touch with their own inner feminine they will also be able to truly connect with the woman that they are in a relationship with and this will heal woman as well. And when the feminine and masculine energies are in balance it will heal the world and create a society that we want to see.
Men you are loved and your true masculinity is somewhere inside you that is waiting to be cracked open.
Until next time.
With Love, Naomi
P.s. you may want to read my other blog that relates to this one ‘How to create Inner Union? Understanding the Feminine and Mascluine Energies within.’ And my blog ‘Some things you want to know about Love’.
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Written by Naomi
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